It is mentioned in some scriptures that when Hanuman went to Lanka in search of Sita, he saw many women, most of them Ravana’s wives in palace’s ‘antahpur’ (a dwelling deep inside the palace for women only). Hanuman had observed that most of them were happy and satiated.Ravana had married Mandodari who was the daughter of ‘Maya Rakhasha’. Though, Mandodari happens to be the main and important character in Ravana’s life, there were definitely other women - some wives, some concubines, some lived willingly with him and some were forced to submit to his lust. One did not expect this from a person of Ravana’s stature, what with his immense knowledge of scriptures and his intelligence which was far above others of his time. He was known to force women outside his palace. In fact, on one occasion when Sita implored that she was ‘Parstri’ (somebody else’s woman) and it was a sin on Ravana’s part to set his evil eyes on her, Ravana had said: “I am a king and it is a king’s prerogative to enjoy ‘parstris’,”.
Ravana did not believe in limits or restrictions as far as his sexual activities were concerned. As a result of which he was cursed many times by his victims. According to one version, he was cursed at least eighteen times. Most prominent of these curses was, when Ravana forced himself upon ‘Vedvati’ and ‘Rambha’ turn by turn. They cursed him that ‘henceforth if he used force on an unwilling woman, he would die instantly.’ This curse may be one reason why he did not force Sita into submission.
Now about Sita- perhaps it was not entirely because Ravana wanted revenge for his sister ‘Shurpanakha that Ravana kidnapped Sita. More likely- Shurpanakha, after Ram and Lakshman cut off her nose and ears- went to her mighty brother, fully knowing his weakness for pretty women, described Sita in such vivid terms that Ravana wanted to possess her (Sita) at any cost, even at the risk of his own life. But again, probably conscious of Vedvati and Rambha’s curse that he restrained himself while dealing with Sita and tried to woo her instead of forcing himself on her.
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